Disrupting the Present

March 20, 2024

I was preparing to give a speech to young adults recently at the Innovation Center associated with our local college.  In doing so, I reviewed some of the interviews they did with past presenters.  The theme of the day it seemed was “disruption.”  Yes, I’ve read the salient books on the topic, and do recognize … Continue reading Disrupting the Present

From Grief to Gratitude – Moving Forward in The Light

September 16, 2023

Early this year, acting from a yearning to include more hope and light in my life, and a way to reduce loneliness and build friendships, I formed a light-seeking group of six gentlemen aged 42-70.  I spent over a year vetting in my mind who might be a part of this group.  The purpose of … Continue reading From Grief to Gratitude – Moving Forward in The Light

A Word for the LIVING

February 3, 2023

For some time now I have boldly researched the topic of suicide ideation and related mental health concerns.  I’m not a scientist or a doctor, rather, I’m a grieving father who lost his son to suicide two and a half years ago at the age of 39. “Bear” still makes an occasional visit in my … Continue reading A Word for the LIVING

The Power of Silence – Keeping Embers of Hope Alive

October 19, 2022

A pastor noticed that a parishioner had stopped attending his services.  The parishioner evidently felt he was no longer noticed, loved, or missed by his attendance, so he simply stopped coming. The pastor gave it some prayerful thought and paid a visit to the elderly man on a very snowy and cold winter day.  He … Continue reading The Power of Silence – Keeping Embers of Hope Alive

Repeat or Evolve – From Focus to Flow (Part Two)

June 29, 2022

In part one of this two-part series, we learned a few steps to increase our focus and purpose in this world of information overload and multi-tasking. In part two, we will dive deeper into the mechanics and disciplines that extend our focus and purpose to a higher level. The Psychology of Focus When I left … Continue reading Repeat or Evolve – From Focus to Flow (Part Two)

Repeat or Evolve – How to Gain More Focus and Purpose (Part One)

June 6, 2022

So much information bombards our minds these days. We absorb more information than ever before. Let me re-phrase that. We are fire hosed with more information than ever before, but we actually don’t absorb any more – UNLESS – I’ll get to that in a moment. In my early married life I had a job … Continue reading Repeat or Evolve – How to Gain More Focus and Purpose (Part One)

More Desert Time: A Guide to Modern Day Peace – Part Two

February 15, 2022

In part one of this two-part series, suggestions were made for finding our own peace in this crazy world.  Finding our own “desert,” or inner peace, requires significant effort. My wife and I are building a new home. The outside of the home has a number of stone columns.  They are large and require significant … Continue reading More Desert Time: A Guide to Modern Day Peace – Part Two

More Desert Time: A Guide to Modern Day Peace – Part One

February 8, 2022

I have written much about suicide ideation since the passing of our dear son in August 2020.  Mental health is a topic that should be front and center in all our minds and hearts, not just for those who know loved ones and friends who have succumbed to the demons of the day. Living through … Continue reading More Desert Time: A Guide to Modern Day Peace – Part One

Spirituality, Religion and a Language for the Soul

November 8, 2021

Guest Post by Rabbi John Crites-BorakLaunching Leaders Advisory Council When we see God’s vision for us and live according to the spiritual guidance we receive, we are aligned with the divine. —Launching Leaders: An Empowering Journey for a New Generation, p. 61 Head, heart and guts. Every successful journey requires three aspects of being: the … Continue reading Spirituality, Religion and a Language for the Soul

Is It Really a Sucker’s Choice?

October 30, 2021

A sucker’s choice happens any time we come to a fork in the road, and it seems there are only two options. If we choose one, we forgo the other.  However, most of the time when we face such a dilemma, if we look a little harder we can find several new options. My wife … Continue reading Is It Really a Sucker’s Choice?